Pedagogical potential of the family

The role and importance of family education in the spiritual and moral perfection of a person can not be overemphasized. The upbringing of the child is the main task of the parents, the first responsibility of the parent is to give the child a beautiful upbringing.

The Ministry of neighborhood and family support of the Republic of Uzbekistan pays special attention to strengthening the Family Institute, providing targeted material and spiritual support to disadvantaged families, studying its pedagogical potential in strengthening the family and developing relevant proposals.

The purpose of Family Education – the formation of qualities that help to overcome various tests and obstacles encountered in life in a person bravely, emphasizes the doctor of philosophy, associate professor Mohira Khalikova.

Spiritual and moral perfection, social and intellectual intelligence, creative ability, vital imagination, skills to work, emotional culture, happiness are important issues of Family Education.

The spiritual environment in the family, personalitylararo relationships play a huge role in the upbringing of the child. In the book of the glorious thinker Abdulla Avlani, "Turkic Gulistan or morality", Allah created human beings with talent and ability in the original khilq, separating good and evil, profit and loss, white and black. But the perfection of this ability in man is divided by upbringing. Laugh at what he saw in the bird's nest, " he says.

The great scientist Abu Ali ibn Sina in his work” the address of the event " widely touched on the issues of family education and suggested the idea that the parent is the head of state or a simple member of society, the same demand should be made to them on the issue of child education.

Moral education of the child says that it is necessary to begin with the first period of its development, in order to achieve the goal, it is necessary to praise the child in the upbringing, sometimes even punish.

Ibn Sina believes that proper upbringing in the family is an important foundation of family happiness. In the formation of child morality, the interaction of the couple, respect for each other, has a positive effect. He puts great demands on the father, that is, the head of the family.

Also, in the care of the child should be used in its place vs important unsurlari – reasoning, explanation, advice, lesson, personal example, support, praise, encouragement, setting rules for the upbringing of the family.

Below are some of the necessary positive skills related to child care for parents:

Manifestation of self-esteem for the child;

Pedagogical tact, observance of the culture of treatment;

Taking into account the individual, psychophysiological characteristics of the child;

To show perseverance, consistency in the upbringing of the child;

Respect the child's point of view;

To be a personal lesson;

Talk with children in a spirit of trust and kindness;

Restrictions and precautions should be understandable to the child;

Respect for the personal space of a child;

Any mistress should be directed to her specific behavior, and not to the person of the child;

To give the child the freedom to choose friends, clothes, music;

Sincere, heartfelt conversation with the child;

Set a strict limit of possible actions, so that the child knows the limit of possible actions;

Active participation in the life of the child, interest in his interests, profession, desire;

To emphasize that you love it;

To exercise its rights and obligations;

Communicate with the child on topics that interest him;

Formation of tactics of relations with the child on the basis of mutual trust and respect;

Allowing children to participate in family life;

Establishment of a family Council to discuss family problems;

Do not forget that you need sincere participation in the life of the child.

Since the father is a head educator, the fact that he has a great influence on the upbringing of the child, the mother should be reasonable and modest, parents should not forget that both theoretically and practically it is necessary to perfectly master the laws of upbringing,-concludes The Doctor of philosophy, Associate Professor Mohira Khalikova.

Ministry of neighborhood and family support of the Republic of Uzbekistan

Research Institute” Mahalla and family"